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Rise and Shine
She sits in the waiting room of the large office with
impressive hangings on the wall. The other applicants for the position are
also waiting somewhat nervously, but this is where the similarity ends.
She adjusts her scarf and hopes that it looks professional enough together
with her neatly pleated black skirt, smart shirt and jacket. She still
feels somewhat out of place and can see the other applicants assessing her
from the corner of their eyes, wondering
‘What on earth is she doing here? She can’t possibly be
applying for this position too?’
The receptionist looks askance at her, frowns, and
tilts her head slightly while looking at the muted colours of her hijab.
‘Are you here to pick something up?’
‘No’, she replies ‘I’m here to apply for the
legal assistant position.’
For young, well educated, practising Muslim women,
this is a common reaction in Australia. The hijab is still mainly
associated with a low socio-economic, migrant background. The typical
first response in the more affluent areas of Australia is to speak slowly,
carefully, and in a slightly annoyed tone, because it’s assumed that the
woman in the hijab has poor English, will be difficult to deal with and
take up valuable time.
Muslim women need to be smart and savvy, almost
aggressively self-confident in order to overcome what - in employment
terms - can be considered as a stigma, an indication that the new employee
comes with ‘baggage’. Hijabs
do not fit a sexy corporate image; they give an indication that the
wearer is being employed to cater specifically for a multicultural
client base.
It is not just at the job application stage, however,
that Muslim women have issues to confront. Within their own migrant Muslim
communities, the common cultural understanding is that a woman’s first
priority is to stay at home, caring for the children and ensuring the
comfort and wellbeing of her husband. Traditionally, a Muslim man is
considered strong when he has control over his wife and kids, an image
that is hard to maintain if his wife is also working, and especially if
her job is ‘better’ than his.
However, the reality is that Muslim women are
entering university and professional life at a faster rate than Muslim
men. Partly because of a conservative culture and outlook that monitors
females more closely than boys, many girls soon see that the best way for
them to gain independence and control over their lives is to acquire a
solid education. This is often in contrast with their brothers who party
or ‘muck around’ with
their friends in town, at the movies, or at places more likely to get them
into trouble. Particularly in the Arabic-speaking communities, little boys
are frequently more spoilt than girls, growing into Muslim men who often
appear more concerned with image than substance, with looking good, and
appearing strong and in control, especially in front of their mates. Their
bookish peers who stay at home and study hard may be secretly admired, but
don’t have the same kudos as their ‘chest beating’ cousins.
Yet, the control and independence that young educated
Muslim women are seeking comes at a price. Men with equal or higher levels
of education are hard to find in their respective ethnic communities, and
therefore marriage partners are more difficult to find. A Muslim man with
less education may forbid his very capable wife from seeking work outside
the home, or the final alternative –an ‘import’ from the parents’
home country—is likely to have even more traditional views on the role
of women. This phenomenon is also happening in Canada, the United Kingdom
and the USA.
But back to the office interview! The difficulties
don’t stop there. Having made it into the first round of interviews,
small businesses – which represent the largest section of employers in
the country – are unlikely to employ our young Muslim woman. Why? They
worry about the potential impact of 30 days fasting on their new employee,
the requirement to pray at work; they worry that she won’t socialise
with the rest of the staff because she won’t drink alcohol; they worry
that she’ll focus on the husband and his needs … and on and on it
goes.
As a
result, the vast majority of Muslim women in Australia are employed
through government and large corporations that can more easily accommodate
their specific needs, or family businesses where the male is still in
control.
This means that the educated Muslim woman who is
looking to advance her long term career prospects often sets up her own
business on her own terms, demanding respect for her intelligence,
determination and, ultimately, her ability. She’s her own boss!
Silma Irham
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